Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Gwen Jarvis with the following comment:
Pearl Eversly Hawkins was my great aunt. I want to be able to put a copy of her grave marker on my family genealogical information on the Ancestry web site.Gwen Jarvis, with whom she is buried, was her beloved friend ... a relationship that was probably understood but not exactly discussed when I was a child and stayed with them in the 1950s.